The Inner Family(AL) as psyche ‒ training

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You have probably already heard about the inner family in connection with energies, as inner parts among many in the work with inner parts or as a systemic approach. But all this is not meant with the inner family(AL) [AL = according to Ayleen Lyschamaya], because the mentioned are the approaches of the old age.

When I speak of the inner family(AL), I base the construction of the complete transcendental consciousness, in which the inner family(AL) is contained quite concretely as a building block.

The human psyche consists of an inner family(AL). This is also the essential Spirituelle Psychotherapie: Die innere Familiecomponent of the ego and determines the personality structure. Our world view, the competence of handling relationships and professional success depend on the health and cooperation of our inner family members. Therefore, the inner family(AL) significantly influences our earthly quality of life and is at the same time the basis for any coaching and psychotherapy as well as for the spiritual development of older souls. The Universal Plan is about getting to know the inner family members as earthly consciousnesses, experiencing them and developing their earthly creative competence.

Therefore, as the originator of structure-based psychotherapy or structure-based coaching, I offer the following trainings and further applications:
1) Basic Application: The inner family(AL) in psychotherapy and coaching (practical seminar)
2) Transformation Application: The inner family(AL) for spiritual seekers or in the training for Consciousness Coaches of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©
3) Certificate for the application of the inner family(AL) in own practice, in coaching or as a Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©

1) Basic Application: The inner family(AL) in psychotherapy and coaching (practical seminar)

This practical seminar enables you to offer psychotherapy or coaching based on the structure of the inner family(AL). Methods are taught to get to know one’s own inner family(AL); however, without changing one’s own personality structure right away with this seminar (basic application). The approach is based on the complete transcendental consciousness of the new age and deals with the earthly consciousness part at the structural layer. This is a practical seminar in which the procedure is learned and experienced in one’s own application. This results in the following seminar structure. In order to subsequently apply the method in one’s own practice or in coaching other people, a licence is needed (see point 3). This requires, among other things, a one-hour structure-oriented as well as an oral examination, which are not part of this practical seminar.

Friday 5.00 p.m. – 8.00 p.m. Dealing with the inner family(AL) in psychotherapy and coaching; it is recommended to already prepare for this date by reading my book “Spiritual Psychotherapy: the inner family” in order to be able to ask specific questions.

Saturday 10.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Self-experience of the inner family(AL).

Sunday 10.00 a.m. – 1.00 p.m. Taking the personal therapeutic method or personal coaching into the approach of the inner family(AL).

I don´t know yet if there will be trainings in English language, too. However, the next possible dates for my therapeutic respectively coaching practice seminars will be announced personally by e-mail. Please write to me to be put on my waiting list.

Course leader
Ayleen Lyschamaya

Number of participants
4-10 persons

13125 Berlin, Walter-Friedrich-Straße 41. Online participation is also possible. However, individual exercises can only be carried out with a partner, so that the experience in this case is limited to watching.

250,- Euro
The seminar is only considered to be booked once the payment has been received. Cancellations are possible up to 3 weeks before the seminar starts, after that 50% of the costs will be charged. Cancellations later than 48 hours before or no-shows are 100% due.


We reserve the right not to hold the seminar. The course fees will then be refunded.

In the following I have webinars for you on each of the inner family members.

Webinar 1: the inner child

Webinar 2: The inner woman

Webinar 3: The inner man

Next up is a video: The accompanying video to the book “Spiritual Psychotherapy: the inner family“.

2) Transformation Application: The inner family(AL) for spiritual seekers or in the training for Consciousness Coaches of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©

Complete spiritual path section one: In individual sessions the inner family(AL) is experienced intensively. The inner family members are healed in a spiritual sense and learn to cooperate well with each other. In the process, one’s own personality structure is changed (transformation application). My Consciousness Coaches of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© accompany you in this process. They have first experienced their inner family(AL) themselves in transforming form and now in turn guide other people. For the very high qualification required, see the training standard for the Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©.

I have three videos for you from the Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© training. The question in video 1 is: How do you place the inner family(AL) in the transcendent consciousness?

Video 2 discusses the possibilities and limitations of consciousness expansion.

Video 3 explains the topics of demarcation and where the inner family(AL) can be found in the body.
Please excuse the partly poor sound quality, especially in the beginning. I don’t know what the reason is, but I nevertheless hope to give you a good insight into the preparation for the inner family(AL) examination.

3) Certificate for the application of the inner family(AL) in own practice, in coaching or as a Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©

Following the personal experience of the inner family(AL) in the practice seminar (basic form) or as a spiritual seeker (transformation form), the additional requirements for the application of the structure-based inner family(AL) with other people are:

1. majority,
2. permission as a non-medical practitioner for psychotherapy or a comparable qualification or coaching for the Basic Licence, or as a Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© for the Transformation Licence,
3. mental health in the traditional sense for the Basic Licence, or Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© for the Transformation Licence,
4. the theory from “Spiritual Psychotherapy: the inner family” and
5. a structure-oriented (cost: 120,-* Euro) as well as an oral (cost: 60,-* Euro) examination; *in addition to the current hourly rate.

The examination: After the practical self-experience of the inner family(AL) you will receive 10 questions (Basic Licence) or 15 questions (Transformation Licence) from me, which you prepare at home and hand in to me up to 48 hours before the examination. You will be asked about the contents of the seminar under point 1) or your own experience under point 2) in connection with “Spiritual Psychotherapy: the inner family“. We will discuss your answered questions in depth in one hour as a structure-oriented examination. For the oral examination we will have a conversation about the inner family(AL) in relation to your personal soul task, which you will start with a short presentation of your soul task in connection with the inner family(AL). If you do not yet know your soul task, it is about your professional field or your personal area of interest in which you would like to use the inner family(AL).

Zertifikat innere Familie nach Ayleen LyschamayaBasic Licence: A certificate is issued confirming successful training, so that the inner family(AL) can be offered to clients in the basic form. On request I also offer the possibility of supervision. In addition, a listing will be made in my directory for those qualified in the structure-based inner family(AL) approach. You can refer to me for your psychotherapy or inner family(AL) coaching.

Zertifikat Bewusstseinscoach der Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©Transformation Licence: The transformational guidance for the experience of the inner family(AL) belongs to the complete spiritual path to Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© [Final-Enlightenment(AL) respectively New Age Enlightenment(AL)] and may only be offered by Consciousness Coaches of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©, because this approach aims at changing the personality structure. However, a differentiation in content to the basic form is unnecessary, because the transformative guidance to the experience of the inner family(AL) can only be carried out by Consciousness Coaches of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung© anyway.


Next, I have some examination questions from the oral examination [autumn 2020] on the inner family(AL) for you:

01) How do you classify the inner family(AL) in the transcendent consciousness?

The inner family(AL) (= psyche) consists of an inner child, an inner woman and an inner man. It is a building block of the earthly part of consciousness. With the earthly part of consciousness (ego) one speaks of the inner family(AL), karmic and body.

02) What do you do in case of language problems or foreign mother tongue?

  1. One way to overcome this barrier is Indirect Love Energy Healing.
  2. With affirmations, care is taken to ensure that the correct understanding is conveyed when translating.
  3. In the case of inner child healing, if applicable, let your client speak in mother tongue to the inner child.
  4. The cultural background plays a role and is communicated.

05) How do you judge situations that your client tells you from her/his everyday life?

Everyday situations are practice situations and give clues to the state of consciousness and development of the inner family members. As a Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©, this is where I can start in order to recognise inner conflicts and find approaches to solutions and to increase the chances of healing.

10) How do you recognise an inner-woman-man personality?

  1. Both parts of the personality are accessible to an inner-woman-man personality.
  2. Often inner-woman-man personalities tend to tilt their personality parts back and forth.
  3. Example: Bipolar disorder is an expression of an inner-woman-man personality.
    Mostly they have the main theme of connection. This means that the cooperation of the individual inner family members is in the foreground.
  4. There are also enmeshed inner-woman-man personalities. If necessary, the inner woman must first be separated from the inner man before cooperation and connection can take place.

11) How does the age of the soul influence the contact with the inner family(AL)?

For old souls, dealing with and healing* the inner family(AL) is always experienced on the structural layer first, whereas with new age souls, dealing with and healing* the inner family(AL) takes place parallel to the divine-earthly connection.

For many (not all) new age souls it is normal not to detach from their parents, because soul-wise they remain little children who need their parents. They have then made appropriate soul agreements with the parents. This is not an indication of a lack of detachment. With older souls, on the other hand, it is an indication of a lack of detachment.

14) Which areas of the body point to issues of the inner child, the inner woman and the inner man?

In general, the left half of the body stands for the feminine, the right half for the masculine. The upper body area tends to have female themes, the lower body area tends to have male themes.


  1. feet and ankles: inner child, new age souls and inner man themes
  2. arms and hands: inner woman themes
  3. back: inner man themes
  4. neck: male karmic system
  5. pelvis, sacral chakra: inner-woman themes and female karmic system

15) How do the female and male karmic systems affect relationships?

For new age souls, the karmic systems hardly play a role, because their karmic systems are rather weak compared to the soul connection.

Old souls no longer perceive their soul connection, accordingly the karmic systems determine the relationship patterns.
The victim role from the female karmic system (avoiding guilt-feelings) and the power role from the male karmic system (avoiding helplessness) give each other stability. These kinds of relationships at the structural layer can last a lifetime.
An old soul will always orientate herself/himself from the victim role, with reproaches about how badly she/he is treated in order to avoid feelings of guilt, towards a relationship partner, who serves the opposite power role by keeping her/him small and putting her/him down. This is what she/he does to avoid helplessness in any case.


In addition, for the healing* of the inner family(AL) the new fairy tale “Gretel and Hansel” is especially important, because as a story it guides how to heal* the feminine. It is the first of five fairy tales for the higher level of consciousness of the new age, which supports social change.


Further to the trainings “Spiritual EMDR(AL)“, “Guilt feelings deletion ‒ live love ‒ approach©” and “Consciousness Coach of the Am-Ziel-Erleuchtung©“.

* Healing is not meant in the medical sense, but as personality development.


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